On Relationships....

ON RELATIONSHIPS....
By
APURVA SANJAY MALEWAR

Happiness is nothing but a mere emotion, what brings in satisfaction, it means to b contented with something,
We see in our lives a plethora of people, passing by our lives, going their own separate ways, doing what they are meant to do,
There is this enduring conflict in my mind, the way people live lives, When one does what he wants to do, the other cannot, I then wonder what it must be for me
to do something like that, in short its a confusing array of people, who blend within our world and who become a part of it.

Here we are standing on this very earth looking upon thyself and there is this brief wonder that tells me a lot about relationships.
Relationships is what makes us all who we are, to some its a burden, to some a responsibility, to some a commitment, but most of all it makes you happy.
It brings out individuality within us, to do what we want to do.

Sometimes relationships are not easy, there is immaculate amount of stress involved, it comes to a time where one has to choose sides, coz there is abundance inability
to accept people in our lives, what happens to such people, they are termed as an outcast, to family they are the black sheep.
It's easy to assume a lot of things and really shun people by stating that they are not right, or the worry that something might happen can hamper people from accepting
other people.

FEAR is the key word, we all have to overcome fear, and we fear losing people because of other people, fear of losing a friend or a loved one, who might get stolen by someone.
If we only learn to accept people we just might not lose them. Look at a family for instance, Girl likes boy and vice versa, family says pick one either she or us, it is a choice with
profound harshness, it is where one would have to sacrifice and face the bitter truth of not having that person.

What do we do then; it's a game of permutations and combination's, where you have the devil and the angel by your side. It's quite a thing; immense coaxing, explanations, and convincing cannot get us to differ upon the relationship. Family is one, starting another is the same thing, its just the practice of acceptability. The society we live in is filled with
maggots, people who do not really care, or we could car less about, yet people always think about what they have to say.

Does it really make a difference??? Think about it? We do what we want as long as it is the truth, we face it and all we need is some support, from the ones who really mean a lot. As for me my family is important, I have seen too many broken homes, too many people saddened by the plight of not having a family, and I can feel their pain. It’s BECAUSE NO ONE AND I MEAN NO ONE IN THIS WORLD HAS BEEN SUPPORTIVE TOWARDS THEM, when they wanted to-do something which was right for them,
Their own family shunned them, and this leads to bad rivalries.

What is the point, at the end we all lose, the people who really mean a lot to us, and things can never be the same again, we can take an easier route give up on dreams to have a great relationship and just stick to our damn lives, which is meaningless.

Or we could gather some courage and go against all odds, presuming that everything is going to be okay, but that’s needs courage, it needs us to go at of our way,
make our own lives, there is big risk of being disowned and shunned by our families, just like committing a grave crime, which is as good as murder, the society will now have a reason to talk about, a new story in the air. Something to blame people about, a new series of laughter will run in the air....

Do we really care? You and me don't they do... and that’s why all this...

We could not care less, but that’s how it is, a rebel we have to be at this stage of our lives, and courage we need in abundance to take a leap in our lives.
This leap has to be accepted by all, for it would be hard, and a tough time if not considered.

This is for you all, follow your heart and do what you have to do, this life is too short to fight UN necessary batters that have no cause.
We have a purpose; lets not give it up just because someone does not feel its right.

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